The payoff is measurable. Students with solid support systems report lower stress, better academic performance, and a stronger sense of belonging, and that matters most during the hard transition into a program and through clinical placements. Research on peer mentoring shows supportive relationships boost engagement and satisfaction by building belonging, which lowers stress. One study of baccalaureate nursing students found a statistically significant inverse relationship between a sense of belonging and perceived stress in clinical placements: more belonging, less stress, and likely better performance (Nurse Education Today).
"My first year of nursing school felt like I was learning an entirely new language," said Shannon Parker, RN, BSN, SANE-A, FNE, a forensic nurse based in Cincinnati, Ohio. "A strong support network is essential to the nursing student's success, which can look like many different things."
Get to Know Your Cohort
Your classmates are your future colleagues, and building connections with them is one of the most valuable things you can do.
"I had a very tight-knit class during my associate degree in nursing, and often we would pray before big tests, cheer each other's successes and offer comfort if one of us fell short," Parker said. "Sometimes, your classmates can make difficult moments feel more like a small hurdle instead of a complete roadblock."
Show up to cohort events. Orientation, campus mixers, and informal meetups break the ice. "It was nice to know that other people are experiencing similar stressors and struggles and can offer meaningful support to each other," Parker said.
Form study groups. Tackle hard material together and reinforce each other's understanding. "During my ADN, we often had small breaks between classes where classmates could go to lunch together or meet somewhere quiet to study," Parker said. "We would also create flashcards on Quizlet that could be shared with each other to help prepare for quizzes and tests." Group texts and social media kept the encouragement flowing between sessions.
Use Your Academic Advisers
Advisers keep you on track with course planning and help when something unexpected hits. They also connect you to tutoring, financial aid, and career planning.
"Having high-quality teachers who are available for appointments outside of classroom time and academic advisors available to discuss concerns and plan future classes with is essential, and a tool I used throughout my time in school," Parker said.
Schedule regular checkins. Use them to review progress, raise concerns, and plan ahead. A strong relationship with your adviser and faculty gives you a group of allies who can help you navigate the program.
Join Clubs and Professional Organizations
Clubs and professional groups expand your network and your knowledge.
School clubs. Groups like the National Student Nurses Association and the Future Nurses Club offer a community of like-minded peers, plus events, study sessions, and workshops. They also open leadership opportunities that help you stand out when applying for jobs or further education, and can connect you with faculty and alumni mentors.
Professional associations. Many offer discounted student memberships. A few to consider: the American Nurses Association (founded in 1896, one of the largest in the country with chapters in every state), the Emergency Nurses Association, the American Association for Men in Nursing, the American Association of Nurse Practitioners, the American Psychiatric Nurses Association, and the National Black Nurses Association and National Association of Hispanic Nurses. These keep you current on practice, connect you with your field, and through conferences and networking events can open doors to scholarships and jobs.
Prioritize Self-Care
Between coursework, clinicals, and life, carving out time for yourself feels impossible. Do it anyway. Self-care is what lets you manage stress and perform, and it takes practice.
"Self-care was a skill I developed late in my time as a student, and honing these skills earlier on would have helped me manage stress better," Parker said. "I am currently completing my degree to become a primary mental health nurse practitioner, and I have learned that taking the time to care for me makes everything work much better."
Make time for yourself. Regular exercise, hobbies, and a balanced diet recharge you. "I run about five out of seven days a week, typically in the mornings, and that helps me start each day feeling fresh," Parker said. "It helps me be a better mom, wife, student, friend and nurse." Time outdoors, journaling, and quiet reflection help too. "Sometimes, I check myself mentally when I feel irritated and remind myself how hard I worked to get where I am now. Gratitude helps a lot," she said.
Lean on loved ones. Family, partners, and close friends provide encouragement and logistical help. "I was a single mother for the majority of my ADN program, and I don't think I could have gotten through it if it weren't for my mom helping me with the kids so that I could study," Parker said. "I was married while completing my BSN, which made a world of difference, having a supportive partner." Tell people what you need. They usually want to help but may not know how.
Seek mental health support. If you are overwhelmed, talk to a counselor or therapist. Addressing burnout early prevents long-term stress. "You can't pour from an empty cup, so make sure you are filling it so you can continue to pour out to others," Parker said.
A support network is one of the most important things you can build in nursing school. Take care of yourself, and start investing in connections now. Your future self, and your future patients, will thank you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why does a support network matter so much in nursing school?
A sense of belonging is tied to lower stress and stronger clinical learning. Research on baccalaureate students found a statistically significant inverse relationship between belonging and perceived stress in clinical placements (Nurse Education Today), and the transition into a program and onto the clinical floor is exactly when that support pays off most.
How do I build connections with my cohort?
Show up to orientation, mixers, and informal meetups, and form study groups that tackle hard material together. Shared flashcards, group texts, and study sessions turn classmates into colleagues who can make a rough week feel like a hurdle instead of a roadblock.
What should I bring to my academic adviser?
Use regular checkins to review progress, raise concerns early, and plan future courses. Advisers also connect you to tutoring, financial aid, and career planning, so treat them as allies, not just a registration step.
Which professional organizations should a student join?
Start with the National Student Nurses Association, which offers community, events, and leadership opportunities (NSNA). Many professional bodies, including the American Nurses Association (founded in 1896, with members in all 50 states), the Emergency Nurses Association, and the National Black Nurses Association, offer discounted student memberships that open doors to scholarships and jobs (ANA).
How do I keep self-care from being the first thing to go?
Treat it as a skill you practice, not a reward. Build in regular exercise, hobbies, time outdoors, and rest, and tell loved ones specifically what you need so they can help. Protecting your own capacity is what lets you keep showing up for patients.
When should I seek mental health support?
If you feel persistently overwhelmed, talk to a campus counselor or therapist before burnout sets in. Addressing it early is far easier than recovering from long-term stress, and reaching out is a sign of self-awareness, not weakness.